Good morning! Ah Trashy Thursdays! Yep guys.... I think we all need to get out there and be a little trashy. You know,,,raw, dirty, sweaty hot sex acts.
I got an email question from a young guy who asked me what he should do. He loves his partner totally, but really wants to go sexing on the side sometimes. So these are my thoughts....
It is fine to be all sweet and tender and lovey-dovey with your partner. But sometimes you need to just get down and dirty. He doesn't like it that way...well.... go find someone who does! All of my regular long time readers know how I feel about monogamy. It totally makes no sense to me. And I know that this might get me in trouble with some of you..but We are Gay men and should be having lots of sex of all kinds with all types of guys.
This does not preclude anyone couple of being in a committed relationship. A committed relationship does not have to mean having one Dick in your life for ever. What it really means is that the two of you are committed to being partners in everything. Sharing everything and making a life together.
I have known too many Couples who tried the monogamy thing only to break up when one of them strayed. How much better would it have been if they just both had agreed that sometimes a guy just needs to taste a different Ass or Dick...? And if you happen to be in a relationship and he does not understand your need to go out and fuck around...then maybe you are with the wrong guy.
The male brain is hard-wired to spread his seed as far and wide as possible - this is why men stray far more than women - it is built into our DNA. It's the thing moralistic societies cannot seem to accept, which feeds the arguments against homosexuals as being overly promiscuous, which, in turn, is the thing that gay and bi men admire the most: The ability to engage in sex without the emotional strings of a relationship. That's me being philosophical today! :-) Hugs!!
ReplyDeleteFirst off, hot pictures today.
ReplyDeleteSecond, I tried monogamy with my last boyfriend. It just did not work. I guess you are right, life with only one dick is not much of a life.
HMMM, I must be the exception to the rule. I've been with Hubby for 23 years and only him. No complaints here. XOXO
ReplyDeleteYes men only exist to spray cum everywhere, like a hose. Would men do anything at all If they couldn't shoot a load at the end of the day?
ReplyDeleteMac congrats on 23 years with the same person, you are fortunate that you both have the same sex drive and are satisfied with each other. I have been with my man 12 years, I love him very much, and couldn't imagine not coming home to him. He use to satisfy me and was no need to get some on the side, but now I need more sex than he can provide, and I love having different cock and ass from time to time.
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