Sunday's Sermon Who is on Top?

            Good morning!   Well, another quite chilly morning here in Miami Beach. At least my coffee is hot and my other hand is keeping my balls warm.  I also promise to get back to answering some of your  emails later today.  Sorry I am behind.  But there was on the other day, I thought I might answer here during a Sunday Sermon post.  It was a question about Fucking. Specifically about being a Top or Bottom.   I know this is an age old question for those in the male gay community.  First off, I should say that for as long as I can remember I have enjoyed both. And from what I gather talking with other guys and reading stuff on the subject, it seems like many more guys are "flip able" than ever before.

     It used to be, and maybe in some areas it still is, that being a bottom ment you were a sissy and not a areal man.  We have all heard that before.   How stupid is that?  A real man wants to enjoy the pleasures of sex in as many way as possible. And if you are not having a Dick up your ass pounding on your prostate, then my dear friend you are not experiencing total sex.  So listen… you guys who consider yourself total tops… let that Dick in.  

    Now, you bottoms, you are not off the hook either. Spice up things, try topping.  Maybe your man only wants you to bottom.  Tell him no more..you want to Top some times.  I had met a guy who is 39 and had never topped simply because he had always bottomed.  I had topped him a couple of times, when one evening, I flipped over and put my ass in the air for him.  At frist he was shy to try, but with some real prodding.. he slipped in and got going. He did the job fairly well for the frist time.  And he was so surprised he enjoyed it as much as he did.

   I know we all have our sexual likes and dislikes.  But maybe it is time to shake thinkgs up a bit!