Good morning my friends! Lovely, lovely day here! I just finished doing what the guy in the photo above was doing. I have said itmany times before...there is nothing like a good morning wank while sitting out doors. You Must try it!
Ok guys, One of your fellow readers need a little help! I got an very nice email from him and he asked me a major question. And since I really do not understand the point of a monogamous relationship...I need a little help here in the answer. Ok her is what he sent me:
I am in a ltr with a very special man A one in a million guy. But justlike you have written I yearn to have more. I want to experience more but know it will hurt him and I may lose him forever.
How do I satisfy my lusting for sexing knowing he does not want me to share? I love him but da dick wants what it wants.
So I told him to just be honest with his partner and find out how he feels. Well, he did that and his lover put his foot down and said never gonna happen. What the fuck should he do? If it was me, I would have just told the lover either we open up this relationship or I am done?
Ok...come on guys..what is the correct answer?
Beautiful images! Always a treat here. I really don't know an answer. If I were in a loving relationship and my partner did not want me to play around, I think I would respect his wishes. Perhaps try to spice up our own sex life. Take the focus off what I think I want and develop what I have. If I couldn't live with that then I guess I'd have to move on. Tough call. I hope you have a great day, buddy. Cheers, AOM
ReplyDeleteThere is no correct answer. All I know is one day one of these guys is going to want to stray outside the relationship. It's only natural because men are not wired to be monogamous. So I believe if they both promise each other to be faithful to one another it will be a disaster eventually. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteHe indicates he's asked to stray outside the relationship and got a flat-out NO Way! BUT, did he ask if his partner might consider a 3-way? This is the way around one partner's need for variety while the other ensures a certain amount of control.
ReplyDeleteThe major reason behind a spouse insisting upon monogamy is a fear of losing the relationship, that the cheating will lead to a more intimate relationship somewhere else. By including that partner, it helps calm those fears.
Another idea might be for them both to attend a true "no lips below the hips" Jack Off Group... A guy I know who was in the same situation suggested the local Jack Off Group, his partner agreed to give it a try and they both happily attended on a monthly basis.
To dig one's heels in and deny the other's needs will eventually lead to a disastrous break-up.
I can agree with whkattk. There's no answer possible. Men need sex much more women, a couple of men are not man + man, but man x man (=men2). If he wants to be monogamous and you monogamous as well, think about if he does worth of your fidelity. On other words, how much you want to put in this relationship? What do you build? if your answer is: a lot, because it's really the man of my life, you can think about building a relationship based also on loyalty. Otherwise you can let him go at the beginnig!
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http://menforxersex.blogspot.it/2014/06/francois-sagat-joyeux-anniversaire.html
I know from experience, this is not going to end well. Either your reader will eventually go ahead and cheat or if he keeps trying to live by his lover's unrealistic demands, he will become disenchanted with him and like Whkattk said there will be a break-up
ReplyDeletelook at this beautiful hary big cocks on these boys! how could you hold back?
ReplyDeleteHmmm... A close minded man with control issues. Yeah, not exactly one in a million. In the end, your friend needs to decide what he really wants and it doesn't sound like a monogamous relationship is it. He could keep trying to wear his current love down, but what that inflexible, non- empathetic man needs is a wake up call. DTMFA. And let your freek flag fly! - uptonking from Wonderland Burlesque
ReplyDeleteI am also in a long-term relationship with a wonderful man and, while I understand your point of view and accept its validity in your life, the question comes down to each person’s definition of love. Love is not a noun; it is a verb and requires action. Sometimes that action is, in fact, inaction. To love someone else means putting their happiness and security ahead of your own pleasures. If the desire for intimacy with someone other than the one you purport to love becomes overwhelming then perhaps it is not love at all. I agree that your reader and his partner need to have a deep discussion of their relationship and its parameters and what each expects from the other in the areas of fidelity and support.
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Peter, I think your post was a great way to put it. It really does depend on their definition of love. While I have not met a guy who I have developed a long term monogamous relationship with, I think it could be possible for me with the right guy. As you said, it depends on what they truly want in their relationship. I hope they can work it out.
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