Saturday

               , Good morning!  So, how is your Dick today?  I trust you have been making sex whenever you can this month.  I know I talk about this often, and I know it might get old to some of you.... but guys...it is so important not only for your well being, and your soul, but also for your health.... to be sexing often.     

             I received an email from a new reader who tells me he has not had his Dick touched nor  his Ass patted in over a year. And he is not sure why? And the kicker is he is only 20!!  OMG!  A guy his age should be out there Fucking and Sucking to his hearts delight!  He says his problem is that he does not know if he is a Top or a Bottom. And wants to know how do you know which one you are?  Ah! Those labels....

            Some of us just know right off that we want something up our bum.  I knew from an early age that sticking a finger in my ass hole  felt good.  And the first time that guy slid his Dick in me...I knew, wowo did I know!  But this guy would not just let it be that way only... he got me hard and sat on my still quite young Dick and this Versatile Queer was born.

           My advice to this reader is simple..... often you really do not know what you like until you try it. And if  you are not ready for any type of anal play...at least make sure you are getting and giving a good blow job or a hand job every so often.  Man to man contact is so important and the lack of it can't be over stated. 

          No one says you MUST be either a Top or a Bottom.... you can be whatever you wish, as long as you are sharing your cum with some one!  So at least go out and get sexual!