Good Morning guys! Ah, the pleasures of a buddy! A good buddy can often make your day even better. Weather he is your best friend, your neighbor or even you long time lover, it is his Ass or Dick that keeps you happy. Am I Right? Maybe I am a total shallow guy, but it seems tome that no matter how much you are into someone or how much you "love" them.... if the sex ain't good then what is the point? Oh I know companionship is important, But if Da Dick is not happy then neither will you.
I bring this up only because an old friend of mine who lives out in the middle of no where with his partner of 15 years tells me that he loves him to death, but the sex has always been just so,so! And now he wishes he had much better sexual partner. And...get this .... even after all these years, he is afraid to tell his partner. This makes NO sense to me at all!
So...here is the question for today..... If you were in a "relationship" and the sex was not as hot and mind blowing as you think it should be, would you stay or would you just find another sex partner to play with.
If hot mind blowing sex is the basis and only reason for the relationship I would need to take a long look at the situation, talk with him, and make needed adjustments...perhaps stay with him and find the hot mind blowing sex elsewhere. If the relationship is deeper than that, and a true commitment, I would also have the same talk, and make whatever change might be needed, including hot mind blowing sex elsewhere. From various postings on other sites, I think this is what is often done.
ReplyDeleteThey saying goes, "Even bad sex is good." In a LTR, not every sexual act is going to be toe-curling, mind-numbing, fireworks. But, should it start to become drab and boring, the key is communication! Yes, guys are much more instinctive when it comes to handling cock, but... Don't be afraid to tell your partner what you want him to do! He isn't a mind-reader any more than you are. "Suck my cock raw!" "Shove that tongue up my ass." "Stroke my cock, man. Milk it dry." "Lick my balls." are all perfectly legitimate requests if it's what you want in the moment and you aren't getting it.
ReplyDeleteNobody is required to accept so-so sex; you accept it only because you are afraid to voice your wants. Body Electric teaches this in their seminars and does quite a good job of explaining how to ask for what you want.
Hi, my friend, you won a new follower.
ReplyDeleteHave a LOVE-ly day and my kindest regards.
I agree with whack, Communication is the key. Thanks for all the beautiful HOT images. Have a wonderful day, bud. Cheers, AOM
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